Hmmm

So.. I was asked today by one of my coworkers about my "infertilities common thread" bracelet thingy. (The link on the right works now.. I just realized yesterday that it didn't) She asked me if it was a kaballah bracelet.. which has been asked at least 3 or 4 times now but coworkers... so I was telling her and another coworker that it was an infertility awareness bracelet..
"You're not infertile" says my coworker.. (who I have known for years and years and consider myself close to) hmm.. Well.. no.. I guess I'm not.. but I guess I didn't really like the way she said it.. like I was a liar or something.. Or maybe she was trying to make me feel better.. or something..
I don't really know what my response was.. I think it was "Kinda.." or something like that but then said.. "Well.. did your doctor tell you that?"

Hmm? Do I need a doctor's note? Its not like I WANT to be infertile.. but I had a heck of a time getting pregnant followed by being terrible at staying pregnant.. i do identify with a lot of those feelings.. although.. I haven't been through half of what a lot of women have..

Also slightly irksome.. When I told her it took us almost a year to get pregnant at all.. she said.."well that's not THAT long.".. Again.. i don't know if she was trying to make me feel better.. or what.. but she got pregnant after knowing her boyfriend for 3 months and using a condom..

So.. I don't really know what the point of this post is..I really DON'T consider myself infertile... but I was just very taken aback by the whole thing..